Cream Cheese Chutney Spread

1 lb. fresh or frozen crabmeat (or shrimp), chopped fine 4 slices white bread, crust removed and made into bread crumbs 1 lb. butter or margarine 2 T. flour 1/2 c. milk 1/2 red or green chili, seeded and chopped fine 1 green onion, chopped fine 1 T. Chinese parsley, chopped Salt, to taste Flour…